Saturday, January 3, 2015

Dating and Relationships in 2015

Dating takes a great deal of effort especially if you are completely allergic to being in public places to mingle with others. After work, family commitments, and life, many want to simply curl up at home with a nice movie or a book, and definitely a home cooked meal. Nothing in that scenario includes scheduling a date, flirting, or even smiling at a random stranger. For singles, a balance needs to be struck between life, responsibilities, and fun. And each of us must find our own source of fun. But before we venture into the world of dating and relationships we must check our own baggage in 2014. We must rediscover what makes us happy and move into 2015 with joy. Or else the past will always be a near distant future.

If you are an introvert or a newly minted one since going out may no longer be enjoyable, than you may be open to being set up by friends or reconnecting with someone from the past. Although, at times you are reminded why a certain person was in your rear view in the first place. Either way, take the time that you are single to work towards new goals that will bring you closer to emotional, financial. and spiritual nirvana. And be cautious of becoming a serial dater, it is never a bad idea to take some time between relationships. Reconnect with friends from your inner and outer circle and rebuild bonds. Make time for casual meals, movies, plays, museums, and walks in the park. The crisp winter air is a wonderful environment for small talk or silence. It is a great way to do some solo or group meditation. It is also a great practice to combine mental and physical well-being.

Remember dating and relationships are not just limited to intimacy and sex. It also includes rebuilding relationships with family and friends. Because no matter who you meet for your personal happily ever after, you will always need your friends to lean on. And those relationships must be nourished as much as possible.

Each life travels its own path. At times paths cross and mingle and even move apart. But our sights should be set on the journey and not simply the destination. Because who knows where you will end up if your heart and mind stay open.

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